The phone rang and my son passed it to me, “It’s for you, Dad.” I had just sat down on the couch after an afternoon of Saturday yard work “Hello, this is Mike.”
A weak voice replied, “Can you come to the farm, there was an accident and Scott has been killed.” I heard the words, but everything in me didn’t want to believe them. Fifteen minutes later, I turned into the farm and saw the ambulance and yellow police tape circling the accident scene.
Before I turned the van off, I prayed, “Father, please help this family.” I picked up my Bible, opened the door, and began walking towards the farmhouse.
The police officer met me on the front yard and asked who I was. I told her I was the family’s pastor. “It’s good you are here,” she said. I asked her what happened and she replied that an accident took the young man’s life and he died instantly.
The words sunk in and the enormity of the situation began to take hold of me.
Scott was a close friend of ours. He was often in our home. I was his pastor. I noticed that his relationship with Jesus has been growing and he was making life choices that indicated his commitment to live in a God honoring way. He was 18.
Six days later, we buried Scott and the memorial service had over 1300 of his friends and family present.
The memorial service was about celebrating the life that God gave Scott and celebrating the work of God in Scott. We found hope when we turned to God who gave Scott life, who sent his own son to die for Scott and for others who would trust Jesus as their savior. The family has confidence that since Scott put his faith in Jesus as his Savior that he is now in heaven, with Jesus. In the middle of a horrific tragedy, the family has hope.
As a pastor I was deeply touched by the power of hope that Scott’s family held on to. Those who live for Jesus have hope that when our earthly body dies it is not the end, rather it is the beginning of living for eternity with Jesus in heaven. This we believe is where Scott is. With his heavenly Father.
Three days after the accident there was a bit of a strange weather system with the combination of sun, dark clouds and rain. I noticed a rainbow in the sky. The next day, I was at the farm with Scott’s father and the topic of the rainbow came up. He said there were actually two rainbows right next to the farm.
Do you know the biblical meaning of a rainbow? God made a promise, a covenant not to fill the entire earth with a flood again. The rainbow is a sign of Gods promise and it gives hope. There is an end to suffering.
It’s as if God was saying at that moment, “I know the loss is enormous, but Scott is all right, he isn’t suffering.” And maybe the second rainbow was for the family and for you and I. God is saying, “I am with you in your suffering, I am close to you and I will not forget you. Put your hope in me.”
- today is two months since the accident
- this was written for the Chilliwack Times
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